Hey y'all.
I'm a 24 y.o. trans-masculine genderqueer nerd that likes playing sports way more than watching them. I'm a Canadian and a traveller-wannabe. I study Psychology at Uni. Most days I love this world we live in.



Ask me if you want to know more.

 

We let Willow cut her hair. When you have a little girl, it’s like how can you teach her that you’re in control of her body? If I teach her that I’m in charge of whether or not she can touch her hair, she’s going to replace me with some other man when she goes out in the world. She can’t cut my hair but that’s her hair. She has got to have command of her body. So when she goes out into the world, she’s going out with a command that it is hers. She is used to making those decisions herself. We try to keep giving them those decisions until they can hold the full weight of their lives.

(On why he let Willow cut all of her hair off)

Read more: Will Smith On Allowing Willow To Cut Her Hair: ‘She Has Got To Have Command Of Her Body’ | Necole Bitchie.com

- He raises a really great point. What would it mean to believe very early that my body was mine. That it’s not for anyone or for any particular purpose other than to be mine until I decide otherwise.

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I was damned near 30 before I could believe my body belonged to me & me alone. Dear people who take an issue with this,

Let the Smiths do right by their babies & shut the fuck up about how you think they should parent.

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Lot of love for Will Smith right now.

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I wish my parents realized that when I was growing up.

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deduceforme:

As promised, here goes my very first giveaway as a way for me to say thanks for the miracle that is my reaching 1000+ followers~  The winner will receive a brand new, unopened copy of BBC Sherlock Season 1 (2 disc) DVD set.
How to win:
You do not need to be following me in order to win.
Only reblogs count.  Likes will not.
Feel free to reblog this up to 5 times~ Any more than that will not count. (I don’t want you guys spamming your poor followers too badly.)
I will pick a winner via a random number generator on the morning of Sunday, May 6th.  Be sure to have your ask boxes open so I can contact the winner for shipping info.
I will ship internationally, but since I am from the US, just be aware that the DVDs are region 1 (US and Canada).
If you have any questions about anything at all, please feel free to contact me.
Good luck!

deduceforme:

As promised, here goes my very first giveaway as a way for me to say thanks for the miracle that is my reaching 1000+ followers~  The winner will receive a brand new, unopened copy of BBC Sherlock Season 1 (2 disc) DVD set.

How to win:

  • You do not need to be following me in order to win.
  • Only reblogs count.  Likes will not.
  • Feel free to reblog this up to 5 times~ Any more than that will not count. (I don’t want you guys spamming your poor followers too badly.)
  • I will pick a winner via a random number generator on the morning of Sunday, May 6th.  Be sure to have your ask boxes open so I can contact the winner for shipping info.
  • I will ship internationally, but since I am from the US, just be aware that the DVDs are region 1 (US and Canada).

If you have any questions about anything at all, please feel free to contact me.

Good luck!

This just happened on my dash

This just happened on my dash

A student blows up at a teacher, drops the F-bomb. The usual approach at Lincoln – and, safe to say, at most high schools in this country – is automatic suspension. Instead, Sporleder sits the kid down and says quietly: “Wow. Are you OK? This doesn’t sound like you. What’s going on?”

He gets even more specific: “You really looked stressed. On a scale of 1-10, where are you with your anger?” The kid was ready. Ready, man! For an anger blast to his face….”How could you do that?” “What’s wrong with you?”…and for the big boot out of school. But he was NOT ready for kindness.

The armor-plated defenses melt like ice under a blowtorch and the words pour out: “My dad’s an alcoholic. He’s promised me things my whole life and never keeps those promises.” The waterfall of words that go deep into his home life, which is no piece of breeze, end with this sentence: “I shouldn’t have blown up at the teacher.” Whoa.

Anonymous asked
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! I know it's sometime this month so I'll just say it now :D

Thanks! My birthday is tomorrow on the 29th. It should be a good day! 

hobbitdragon:

Feminist Frequency - Tropes vs Women “The Mystical Pregnancy”

One in a series of six excellent videos about misogynist tropes in cinema, particularly Sci-fi & fantasy. I think I might have posted this video before, but if so, I’ll just do it again now.